
Seriously??? My heart sank as I saw the newest edition of our county magazine on the racks last week entitled "Invest in Your Looks Wisely." It's extremely sad, but true. This IS what our world has come to. It is now the norm. It has inundated and taken over the minds of women everywhere. Plastic surgery is something that I have thought about, struggled with, coveted and even planned on having at one point. I had consulted with the doctor, given my deposit, tried on my new boobs and even set a date for surgery. Until... I finally relinquished control of my life for a minute and decided to ask God what he thought. And then... I cancelled my appointment.
I kind of figured that may happen which is why I never bothered to ask Him earlier. This is something that I WANTED and that he WOULDN'T understand. And, then I decided to put myself in his shoes, if I could possibly even imagine being God.
How would I feel if my beautiful baby girl came up to me and said, "Mommy, I know you love me. I know I grew in your tummy and people say I look just like you. But, I wish I could look like my friend next door. She's prettier than me. She's taller and skinnier than me. Why couldn't you have made me like her?"
That would break my heart!! Now think how God feels, who loves each of us more than we could possibly ever love our own children and who made us with his very own hands, when we tell him that we want to change ourselves.
Oh, nevermind, God, I'll just fix it.
This particular topic is now something near and dear to my heart because I "get it". I understand what these women go through and how they want what God didn't give them. Certainly I should know what's best for my own body, right? No, you don't. Not according to the Bible. I am grieving the fact that so many Christians, including myself, have fallen into the trap of not being good enough. And, I don't care what anybody else tells you, the reason someone has plastic surgery is because they aren't finding their identity in Christ. THAT, my friends, is the bottom line. I know because I've been there. I could explain to anyone why I was getting cosmetic surgery, why it wasn't wrong, why it was MY choice. I could justify it all. day. long. Christian or not, if your sole identity is not in Christ, then you become like the world around you. And you want to BE like the world around you.
If I'm not confident in my own skin, then I'll change it. I really wish I had C-cup breasts instead of A-cup, so I'll change it. I really wish I had a flatter stomach, so I'll change it. I really wish my butt was smaller, my thighs didn't have dimples in them, my eyes are closer together, my nose didn't have a bend in it, I wish, I wish, I wish... SO I'LL CHANGE IT! This is the trap that countless women have fallen into, both Christian and non-Christian. However, what grieves my heart is that Christians aren't seeing themselves through God's eyes. They have forgotten who their first love is and WHOSE LOVE THEY ARE. They are forgetting that the maker of the universe made them, too. Just go out on a clear summer night and look straight up. The same person who made those stars, who put the earth into motion, who told the seas how far they could come and no farther, made YOU and ME! Christian women have forgotten who they really live for (again, I'm not leaving myself out of this.) Am I living for myself, for my neighbors down the street who are prettier than I am, for those women I see at the gym with big perky breasts and cut abs?? Or am I living for God? The author and perfector of my faith? The one who gave his Son for me? The one who MADE me?
Psalm 139:13, 15, 16
"For You (God) did form my inward parts; You did knit me together in my mother's womb. My frame was not hidden from You when I was being formed in secret and intricately and curiously wrought as if embroidered with various colors in the depths of the earth, a region of darkness and mystery. Your eyes saw my unformed substance, and in Your book all the days of my life were written before ever they took shape, when as yet there was none of them."
I'm not sure if I'm getting my point across. No one may ever read this and, if they do, no one may ever agree with me. But, I can understand and empathize with the women who obsess over the idea of changing their bodies because they notice that other people have something "better" than they do. And, seriously, who doesn't want something that's "better"? This whole idea of "better" is man-made, not GOD-made. To God, what could be better than perfect?The facts about breast augmentation that no one tells you:**The average "life-span" of breasts implants is 10-15 years. So, if you're 30 when you get them then plan on having it done again when your 40, 50, 60 and 70. Sound good?**It's not cheap and most people end up financing their implants.**If ever you decide to have the implants removed, like when your 60 and don't want to have surgery again in 10 years, the breast tissue has changed and the results are less than desirable like puckering, dimpling and wrinkling. But, be prepared to finance that as well because you know surgery isn't cheap.